About Us

BeYouDcor Weddings & Events

My name is Abigail C. Clervius, Abbey, and I am the Wedding & Event Planner/Designer and Creative Director at BeYouDcor.

I am incredibly passionate about my work and feel blessed to bring joy and unforgettable memories to couples and clients alike. My top priorities in life are The Lord and my family of 3 kids and an amazing husband.  With that said, I am very dedicated to my craft and enjoy finding unique venues and creating custom designs that showcase your individuality and style.

At BeYouDcor, we believe that your event should be a reflection of everything that makes you special. Why fit in when you were born to stand out? When I'm not planning beautiful events, I love to unwind with a good Netflix show and my guilty pleasure, warm cookies and vanilla yogurt. Let's start planning the celebration of your unique story together! 

Not Your Basic NJ Wedding Planner

We have years of experience providing unparalleled wedding services across New Jersey, New York, Pennsylvania, and beyond. We are driven by a passion to tell your captivating love story visually, leaving you awash with the emotions that connect you to your event.

Our curation of each detail, design, color, sound, and taste all contribute to an unforgettable experience designed to spark joy, love, excitement, and more. We strive for excellence in transforming your vision into reality, and our reputation as "The Bride Whisperer" speaks for itself.

With my degree in Familial/Behavioral Sciences, I can confidently attest that our approach is grounded in the study of human emotion, relationships, and decision-making, creating events that leave lasting memories. We're excited for you to choose us; you are in the best hands possible! 

Abigail C. Clervius
Wedding & Event Planner/Designer | Creative Director
. Beyoudcor Weddings & Events
Themes/Sneakpeeks

Wedding Dates

Sneak-peeks of some of our upcoming weddings & Design Themes.

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1. Minimalistic Chic With a Touch of Boho Vibes
{October : 2023}

New Jersey
2. Whimsically Bright from The Arcade to The Museum
{February : 2024}

Philly
3. Ethereal Views of Lavender & Lilac
{May : 2024}

New Jersey
4. Glamorous Elegance on Long Beach Island
{August : 2024}

LBI
Our Senior

Wedding Team

Your name | Wedding Day Production/Coordination Specialist

Your name is our day of master of execution. With a naturally level headed and endearing nature, she simultaneously keeps everything running smoothly while ensuring everyone is calm and taken care of. She is exactly who you want around when you feel like everyone is coming at you all at once and you just want to breathe. You'll meet her on your wedding day and be over the moon that you did.

''The Bride Whisperer!!! I would never admit that maybe, perhaps, possibly I was a slight bit of a Bridezilla... what i will say is that, Abby saved me from myself! Every-single-day from the second I found her! She's extremely compassionate and comforting, she listened to my vision (ie: rants) and ran with it, respecting it, perfecting it and executing it beyond my imagination! She had a tight time schedule transforming a small venue THREE times within 4 hours and my guest were none the wiser, they were in awe each time they reentered the space. The other vendors she worked with raved about her and I could honestly write a few more pages about her professionalism, demeanor and talent, but I'll just say this from a picky Bride... BOOK BeYouDcor NOW!!!!!!!! ''
Lakiesha Littles
''Great experience! Had a very pleasant working relationship with Abbey and her team. Ensured the day went smoothly both for the bride and groom and for other vendors. ''
Virgil Kere
''Director of catering It was a pleasure working with Abbey She was extremely professional and a had a great outlook in reference to the brides vision ''
Jeff Sands
''Simply Amazing I can not even express how amazing Abbey & Berline from BeYouDcor are. Both ladies help my day go seamlessly perfect, while also providing a calming energy for myself and my bridal party. They were able to work smoothly with my other vendors and the venue and helped us stay on schedule. Beyond happy thank you ladies!!! ''
Renee Smith
''DJ SIK of Sik Entertainment I had the opportunity to work with Abbey & the crew at BeYouDcor this past weekend at a huge wedding in AC. & I must say as a vendor my self they were a joy to work with, sharp, & professional. I highly recommend! ''
Ahmon Hardy
'It is always a pleasure working with Abbey! She demonstrates professionalism through her utmost respect for her clients, punctuality, and dedication. Abbey never ceases to amaze me in her ability to be tactful and diligent as she invests her time and effort to produce the best possible results in her work. She is also extremely patient with her clients as she listens to their needs and responds to them with dignity. I highly recommend Abbey as one who will go above and beyond in any project she is involved! ''
Marie M
'Abbey the owner of BeYouDcor is an extremely talented wedding planner. Abbey is not only a visionary, but she is also an artist at heart. Having worked with Abbey as a vendor, she made my job as the photographer extremely easy to accomplish. If your in the market for a wedding planner, BeYouDcor is the one for you !! ''
Anthony S.
'My company hired Abbey of BeYouDcor to provide Day of Coordination services for my client’s wedding. She provided outstanding service! She provided great support and guidance throughout my client’s wedding day! Definitely check out her wedding services! ''
Jeanette
'Abbey was an absolute pleasure to work with during a styled photoshoot. She reached out to me to collaborate with my mobile bar and I instantly felt she had great energy. She was very on top of everything and paid attention to so much detail. The shoot went so smoothly. There was a beautiful setup done by her and never once did her smile leave her face. I would recommend her and her business to everyone! ''
Samantha M.
'Such an amazing person to work with. I worked with Abbey, I do wedding hair and makeup. Abbey has a warm and beautiful personality that makes you feel at ease. I love her eye for wedding decor as well as her passion for it. I’ve worked with many planners, but Abbey is by far my favorite. I would 1000% recommend Abbey to plan your wedding and any other wedding events you need planned, like your shower. ''
Anjeh A.
'My wedding was on 11/26/21 and Abbey and her team made sure my vision came to life! Everything was beautiful and I wish I can relieve the day again! She had a lot of great ideas and helped me to cut costs for my big day. I absolutely recommend Abbey, she was the best and so easy to work with! '
Priscilla Chiwanza
'We worked with Abbey for our wedding this past weekend and her team did such an amazing job! The venue decoration was beyond what I imagined and everyone was so impressed by how beautiful everything was. Abbey & Berline also helped our day run so smoothly so that we didn't have to worry about anything and could just enjoy. I highly recommend BeYouDcor for your events! '
Yvonne Yu
'I have been working with this company for a few years now and it has been such a pleasure working with Abbey and her team. The level of professionalism, communication and attention to detail, is truly unmatched. I would recommend this events company to anyone needing a seamless and enjoyable experience planning their next big day! '
Adriana
'Positive: Professionalism, Quality, Responsiveness, Value Beyoudcor is definitely a company I will work with again. I am truly thankful for abbey and her love for what she does. Her attention to detail blew my mind. She definitely went above and beyond. I 10000% recommend. '
TifanyJ Inspired
F.A.Qs

Wedding Questions

Hello, I'm so glad you're here. Planning a wedding for the first time can be both exciting and daunting. Don't worry, you're not alone! We've helped many couples like you in the past, and we're here to provide you with some helpful tips and answers to common questions. If you're feeling overwhelmed or just need some clarity, don't hesitate to reach out to us - we're happy to help in any way we can!

  • How do I plan a wedding in three months?

    Not easy at all, but doable! 3 major tips: Small guestlist - less than 50.

    Compromise - You won't get everything on your list, but with a great planner, you'll get many! Keep in mind though to be ready to compromise more than usual.

    Ask for help - If you want your sanity in tact on your wedding day, you will need help!

  • Do we need a wedding planner?

    A wedding planner is there to deliver as many of your dream wedding desires as is possible while keeping to budget, timing, etc.  We are here to ensure our couples enjoy a stress-free wedding planning journey.  It is up to you and how you imagine you want to spend your pre-wedding months.

  • What does a custom wedding design consist of?

    We are thrilled to share that we are the Designer of your dream Wedding. Our expertise is in bringing your vision to life with our creativity and skills. Couples and/or Planners who have booked other vendors choose us as their go-to Designer to add the pretty to their special day. We're excited to take on the task of creating the perfect aesthetic that fits your style, preferences, and desires in every detail. From colors to flowers, draping, flooring, and more, we'll flawlessly execute every piece of the puzzle. Worry not, if you prefer us to handle everything in terms of decision making, we're up to the challenge with confidence and a passion for perfection. Trust us to make your Wedding stunning and unforgettable!

  • How do you plan a destination wedding?

    Planning a destination wedding isn't just planning a trip. You are planning the most important event of your life, your wedding. You absolutely want someone who has experience in curating a memorable wedding, putting together a dedicated and well connected team of vendors as well as who will be able to find the right travel options for you and your guests! The first step we usually take in planning a destination is finding out your destination style.  Mountains or beach? Island or city? Water or trees? Traditional or unique? After that, we contact our destination venue connections and find the perfect one for you and the experience you are looking to create for your guests.