About BeYouDcor
Beautiful events begin withunderstanding the peoplebehind them.
Our Approach
Not your basic wedding planner.
We have years of experience providing unparalleled wedding services across New Jersey, New York, Pennsylvania and beyond. We are driven by a passion to tell your captivating love story visually, leaving you awash with the emotions that connect you to your event.
Our curation of each detail, design, color, sound and taste all contribute to an unforgettable experience designed to spark joy, love and excitement. We strive for excellence in transforming your vision into reality.
Why fit in when you were born to stand out? We believe your event should be a reflection of everything that makes you special — personalized, intentional and entirely your own.
Founder / Creative Director
Abigail C. Clervius
Wedding Planner — Event Designer — Creative Director
The Story
The Beginning
My name is Abigail C. Clervius — Abbey — and I am the Wedding & Event Planner/Designer and Creative Director at BeYouDcor. I am incredibly passionate about my work and feel blessed to bring joy and unforgettable memories to couples and clients alike.
The Approach
At BeYouDcor, we believe that your event should be a reflection of everything that makes you special. We listen, we ask, and we pay attention — translating your story into a celebration that feels unmistakably yours.
The Creative Mind
I am dedicated to my craft and enjoy finding unique venues and creating custom designs that showcase your individuality and style. With a degree in Familial and Behavioral Sciences, my approach is grounded in the study of human emotion, relationships and decision-making.
The Person Behind The Events
My top priorities in life are The Lord and my family — three kids and an amazing husband. When I'm not planning beautiful events, I love to unwind with a good Netflix show and my guilty pleasure: warm cookies and vanilla yogurt.
A Reputation We Hold Dearly
The Bride Whisperer.
It means someone who listens — who understands the client, helps translate their ideas, anticipates needs and protects the experience so you can be fully present for every moment.
The Work, In Frames
Signature Aesthetics
A few worlds we love to create within.
Minimalistic Chic with a Touch of Boho
Quiet lines, natural texture, effortless warmth.
Whimsically Bright
Playful color and light, from arcade to gallery.
Ethereal Lavender & Lilac
Soft, romantic, dream-like layers.
Glamorous Elegance
Refined luxury with a confident edge.
What Guides Us
The principles behind every celebration.
Personal
Every celebration begins with understanding you.
Intentional
No detail is accidental; every choice has a reason.
Creative
We design with a point of view, never a template.
Elevated
Considered, refined and quietly luxurious.
Detail-Driven
The small things are the big things.
The Team
Wedding Day Production & Coordination
Our day-of master of execution. With a naturally level-headed and endearing nature, she simultaneously keeps everything running smoothly while ensuring everyone is calm and taken care of — exactly who you want around when you feel like everyone is coming at you and you just want to breathe. You'll meet her on your wedding day and be over the moon that you did.
Let's Create Something Beautiful